Three vows and a game: Ceremony gold for Matt and Elly

Matt and Elly: Three lots of vows and a game – a ceremony like no other

 

Three vows and a game
Elly and Matt loved writing vows so much they wrote 3 lots each

Matt and Elly are such a delightful couple who met in high school and who really dived deep into creating a truly personalised and authentic ceremony.  They wrote three separate lots of vows for each other: I’ve included them below!

First, they wrote normal vows which were beautifully personalised , secondly, they wrote  sneaky Ninja vows (where they write the last line/s of each other’s vows as a surprise – my couples love this and it’s usually cause for a good belly laugh because it can get quite competitive.)

Finally, their third lot of vows were combined vows or as I like to call them “tennis match” vows because the crowds heads move from right to left as they watch each person speak – as Elly and Matt took turns saying a line each.  You could tell the couple really got into the whole wedding thing and they loved the Homework I send out to my couples – these combined vows evolved from the process of doing their homework.   Again, a lot of fun and really quite unique!

And finally, check out the game we wrote for the guests.  I asked everyone to stand and those who were already standing to put a hand up.   As I asked questions, people were eliminated as they sat, until only two people were left standing (or with their hand up): our two witnesses.  It was super cool!

Read them all below:

Enjoying their day every step of the way
Finding unique ways to celebrate your love is an art – and Elly and Matt nailed it

Matt’ vows

Elly, I dead set feel like the luckiest man in the world right now. The thought of sharing my life with you makes me so happy and excited. 

You make every moment worth living. Your eyes light up my life and your smile melts my heart. So, standing here right now I promise to always make you smile, to make you laugh. To always be silly with you, and as we might grow older together to never grow up.  

You continue to teach me so much about myself. To be truly mindful and thankful of this wonderful life we share with beautiful friends and family surrounding us. You show me how to find that little piece of good in every moment, to never dwell in any situation and to always be kind to myself and others. And for that I feel more alive than ever. So, I thank you so much for making me the best person I can be. For showing me a way of life that fills my heart with so much happiness and joy every single day. You are truly an inspiration to not only me but to everyone around you. Be proud of the person you are, because I know I am So I promise to trust you in all things, to support you as you follow your hopes and dreams, to remind you every day just how brave and beautiful you are! 

  • I will hold you tight and never let go
  • We will face whatever life can throw at us, whether it’s good or bad, as a team and with a smile on our face or tears in our eyes. 
  • I will follow you anywhere you want to go baby! It always leads to the best adventures. 
  • I will cherish every single moment I have with you, as my Best friend, my lover and now my beautiful wife! 
  • And I will love you more than I could ever put into words for the rest of my life. 

 

Matt’s Ninja vows (written by Elly) Neither of them knew what they had to say til I handed them the paper on their wedding day.

I vow to work on my time management skills and to acknowledge that 20 minutes late is not on time.

I vow to relocate all of the spiders instead of squealing and making Elly do it.

I vow to have belly laughs and cheesy smiles together forever.

Gal pals
Surrounding yourself with your best gal pals is important for a fun and stress-free wedding

 Elly’s vows

It seems like only yesterday that we were 15 years old writing love letters to one another from across the classroom. Just over thirteen years ago we held hands at the movies and that night you asked me to be your girlfriend. I said yes like you were asking me to marry you. Cringe-worthy high school sweethearts, we were.

I was on crutches at the time and you came over to my house every day. You teased me about not being able to ride my push bike or jump on the trampoline, but you made up for it by telling me that my scars made me look cool.

For the next two years of school you walked me home each day and we had so many adventures every afternoon. When it was time for you to ride your push bike home, we would say our ‘goodbyes’ and ‘I love yous’ as if it was the last time we would ever see each other. One night you were looking back with such an enormous cheesy smile, that when you turned around, you crashed straight into my parent’s mailbox.

We still laugh about that moment to this day.

Bodzy, I know that you’re my soul mate because here we are thirteen years later, still treating every moment together as though it’s our last.

You have always been clumsy, but I will never get sick of laughing at your stupid ideas and crazy mishaps.

I could write a novel on the belly laughs that we have shared together. Every so-called flaw that makes up you; the clumsiness, the forgetfulness and the lack of time management – none of them are actually flaws. When you’re clumsy, we have hilarious stories to tell, when you’re forgetful or late it’s because you’re spreading your positive vibes with the rest of the world. Every so-called imperfection makes up the perfect soul that you are, and you should be so proud of who you are, Matt.

The places that you have taken us with your “she’ll be rights”, cheesy grins and optimistic outlook are endless. Our life together is a constant adventure and you are forever teaching me to focus on the positive. Whether I’m covered in swamp water, the van is bogged up a four-wheel drive track in the middle of the dessert or we’re scrambling down a mountain in a hailstorm storm, you always find a way to make me smile, laugh and see the brighter side.

I still have the friendship ring that you gave me on our one-year anniversary. I look down at it often and it reminds me of your huge smile and how far we have grown together. It’s in the shape of a daisy chain, so I felt like it was perfect to have daisy chains on the straps on my wedding dress, it’s the simple things, right.

Thank you for showing me how to be the very best version of myself.
You are the most kind, genuine, funny and easy going soul.

You are my best friend, my lover and my soul mate.

I love you xoxo…

Elly’s Ninja vows (written by Matt)

I promise to understand that your version of clean and my version of clean are completely different.

I promise to always do my downward dogs in a way that you can check out my ass. 

I promise to never change the person I am, because I know in your eyes I am perfect. 

I love this photo – it’s like Elly is saying, “C’mon Matty, let’s get going!”

COMBINED VOWS (which evolved from them responding to the homework I send out) – I call these tennis match vows

Matt  I promise to always take you on adventures especially off the beaten track.

Elly  I promise to always adventure with you, even if it leads us to being stranded off the beaten track.

Matt  I promise to always be by your side and support anything you want to do, even if that’s taking jumping photos on the edge of the Grand Canyon.

Elly  I promise to always be by your side and support anything you want to do, even if that’s fishing in croc infested rivers, scuba diving at night or surfing monster waves.

Matt  I promise to always party with you and follow you into any mischief that finds us.

Elly  I promise to always party with you and get you home safely even if that means hiding in a cemetery for a while.

Matt  I promise to always look after you any time you fall into a swamp.

Elly  I promise to always look after you any time you fall off of a balcony.

Matt  I promise to always laugh at your clumsiness because we BOTH know that you’re the clumsier one.

Elly  I promise to always laugh at your clumsiness because we ALL know that you’re the clumsiest one.

Matt  I promise to always be patient with your constructive criticism when I’m driving.

Elly  I promise to always be patient with your slow driving, even when you become an actual grandpa Bodz.

Matt  I promise to always have fun with you and to never grow up, even as we grow old together.

Elly  I promise to always have fun with you and to never grow up, even as we grow old together.

Matt  I promise to always be your soul mate, lover and best friend no matter what comes our way.

Elly  I promise to always be your soul mate, lover and best friend no matter what comes our way.

Grunt car
Cool car for a cool couple

GAME:  Questions to announce our 2 witnesses

Ask everyone to stand,and those already standing eg. bridal party to put their hands in the air.

As I asked each question, if yes, people in seats stay standing and people standing keep their hand in air.

  1. If you’re under 60 years of age
  2. If you have tattoos
  3. If you have blue or green eyes
  4. If you’re related to anybody here today
  5. If you were born in WA or QLD
  6. If your dad’s name starts with D
  7. If you have a brother in the wedding party

This game worked a trick and was a really creative, fun and interactive way to get the guests involved in the ceremony.

No-one will ever forget this wedding – it was just amazing!